For starters, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you having a desire to get married and not being shy about it. I’m not saying that you’re running up to singles of the opposite sex screaming that you want to get married. I’m talking about the confidence of knowing that it will happen. I’m talking about talking about it with confidence and being unapologetic about your desire to be married.
Dating is something that has to be done before you get to marriage. Some may call it courting, but either way, you have to get to know the person through dating. Unless of course it’s an arranged marriage, but I don’t believe any of you plan on having an arranged marriage in the traditional sense of the phrase. The only one arranging it is God.
Perhaps you haven’t been on a date in a long time. Perhaps, no one has shown interest. Perhaps those who have shown interest have simply wasted your time. You may be to that place where you’re just sick and tired of being tired. You’re mentally and emotionally exhausted from this rollercoaster ride on the journey towards love.
All change is not bad change, but if you find yourself changing to try to become who you think someone wants you to be or to try to force love, that’s not a good thing. You already know that you shouldn’t change to try to be who someone wants you to be. However, sometimes it’s subtle and you may not be aware of it. There are too many who are taking bad advice from friends and family to do things that are simply below their standards. There is nothing wrong with you.
It amazes me how so much time is spent on thinking and wondering or worrying about if the 1 will come or why they haven’t come. Don’t stop praying and warring for your future mate until they manifest in your life! I must keep reiterating this point b/c it is critical that you understand this. One of the biggest lies the enemy told you is that you don’t need to continue to pray about it b/c you’ve already prayed enough. There is no such thing as praying too much about something! You pray until you see the victory!