It is a fact that love is a choice. If you have a desire to get married, God has placed that desire in you! So, you have to make the choice if you will continue to pray and fight for the manifestation of your God ordained spouse or not. There is sometimes a disconnect when some say they want to get married and actually believing they will.
Last week, I shared part 1 of my interview with host Jay Mayo on his Right to R.E.A.L. Love Podcast. I have included the rest of the interview below on the topic, “Why Praying For Your Future Spouse Is Not Enough.”
Praying For Your Future Spouse Is Not Enough Part 2
Praying For Your Future Spouse Is Not Enough Part 3
Praying For Your Future Spouse Is Not Enough Part 4
Remember that you are Single For 1.
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Praying for your future spouse is certainly very important, but that’s not just enough in itself. Walk with me on this journey and listen in as I discuss this topic on my recent interview on The Right to R.E.A.L. Love Radio Podcast with the host Jay Mayo.
You must keep the faith that you will meet the 1. It’s not something that might happen, but it’s something that has already happened in the spirit. It’s already written in your book in heaven. Do you know what that means? It means it’s already done! You just have to live it out and recognize that the enemy doesn’t want it to be fulfilled. So, fight back. Fight the good fight of faith.
I am shouting from every mountaintop and rooftop for everyone to hear that “You’re not waiting on God to get married.” Well, for most of you that is the case. The Lord keeps reiterating this over and over and over again. Yes, for some of you, it’s not time yet. However, for most of you it is time! It’s actually overdue for many of you. Thank God that He can and will redeem the time.
So many individuals spend so much time looking for love when in all actuality, love is looking for you! You must understand that God wired you to want love and to give love. So, finding love is not the challenge b/c love is looking for you!
You must understand that for most of you, you don’t need to wait to get married, but you need to fight to get married. I say it often that 1 of 2 things are going on. Either God hasn’t released your mate yet and it’s a matter of waiting, or God has released your mate and Satan is holding it up in spiritual warfare.
Yes, you have to date before you get married and when you get married. However, there are some early dating warning signs to look out for while dating to help you avoid some unnecessary damage.
1.) When Spending Time Doesn’t Seem To Be Priority
Whether they are local or long distance, spending time should be a top priority. If you find yourself not talking to them for 1 day or days at a time, that is a major red flag. I don’t care how busy they say they are. A person makes time for what they want. How can you really get to know each other or grow in a relationship without spending time?
You may be wondering if you will ever meet the right 1. Dating sometimes can be frustrating. You may be wondering why does it have to be so complicated? Why can’t the 1 just show up today and you live happily ever after?
Yes, there are all types of singles across the globe from various walks of life. I know you’ve heard every statistic there is when it comes to dating and relationships. Some of the statistics are false. Some are misleading. Some causes fear and panic. However, at the end of the day, those statistics have nothing to do with you meeting the 1.
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