How Do I Get Out of This Bad Dating Cycle?

January 28, 2016 at 9:00 am

 

Diary of A Future Spouse

 

Here is another archived post from our Diary of A Future Spouse!

Dear Duke,

Well to start off, I am finding myself feeling frustrated and almost hopeless in believing that I can find true love God’s way. Don’t get me wrong, I know God is able, but sometimes I just wonder if He is able and willing to perform such a miraculous work in my life.

 

I met my first boyfriend at 18 when I was a freshman in College. I was a virgin then, and I stood firm on the fact that I wanted to wait until I was married to go all the way.

I Gave This Man Too Much Too Soon

January 21, 2016 at 9:00 am

 

Diary of A Future Spouse

 

Dear Duke,

Today we will revisit a past Diary of A Future Spouse post of a real life dating story that was submitted.

I dated a man for 5 months. During the 5 month relationship, I did everything I could to show this man that I was the exception, which was my mistake. This man had a son from a previous relationship. I loved his son the moment I held him.

3 Things To Stop Doing When You Date

January 14, 2016 at 9:00 am

 

stop light

When you are in route to getting in a relationship, there are some things that you need to not do before you date or while you’re dating. I’m not talking about if you get to the 1, but I’m talking about when you get to the 1. There are some bad habits that need to be broken. I have outlined 3 things to stop doing when you date. These things sometimes go unnoticed, but if you recognize it, it will help you tremendously on your way to the 1.

You Would Fall In Love With Me

January 7, 2016 at 9:00 am

 

love me 2

Love is not hard to find! It is very easy for someone to fall in love with you! Some of you have gotten frustrated b/c you haven’t met the 1 yet! Not only have you not met the 1, but you haven’t met any good potentials. The good news is that it doesn’t matter. You will meet the right 1, and it will be easy for the right 1 to fall in love with you b/c they’ve waited for you all their life!

I’m Expecting My Best Love Ever

December 31, 2015 at 9:00 am

 

Love for the boss

Here we are 1 day away from another new calendar year. Perhaps you have waited to connect with your best love ever and it didn’t happen. I know that for many of you, the past 364 days have not been the best. You have seen some better days. Granted, all was not bad. However, I know that the warfare was at an all time high in the body of Christ b/c of what we’re coming into.

3 Dating Red Flags To Watch Out For

December 17, 2015 at 9:00 am

 

red flags

No matter where you find yourself at this present moment when it comes to relationships, if you desire to marry, the fact of the matter remains that you will have to date before you walk down the aisle. Of course the desire is that the next person you date will be the 1. However, even in that, it’s still a process and there are some red flags that you need to be aware of and make sure you don’t ignore.

3 Tips on How To Get Excited Again About Meeting the 1

December 10, 2015 at 9:00 am

love again

I know you’ve waited and waited and prayed and waited. You have gotten to the place on more than one occasion to where you’re tired of praying about it and you’re tired of waiting. You want to be excited, but some parts of you are beginning to actually question if you ever will meet the 1. Many of you are in the place of “Lord I believe, but help my unbelief.”

It’s Hard to Think About Love B/c I’m Tired of Everything

December 3, 2015 at 9:00 am

sick and tired

Some of you have gotten to the place where your hope has dwindled about getting married. It’s not that you don’t think it will happen, but it’s the fact that so much other things are going on. You are looking for breakthrough in so many other areas. You may be wondering, when will I finally get a break?!

Singles Prayer Call Replay for November

December 2, 2015 at 5:00 pm

If you missed our Singles Prayer Call on Sunday, you can click on the link below to listen to the replay or call the replay line to listen.

Singles Prayer Call Replay

Replay Number at: (530) 881-1219   Meeting ID: 882 763 906  Replay Reference #41

3 Things Not To Do If You Want To Get Married

November 19, 2015 at 9:00 am

 

stop hand

I have often talked about things to do pertaining to relationships, but it’s also important to know some things not to do. I understand that getting married is something most of you desire, but as I have often stated, getting married is not a goal if it’s God ordained. Marriage is not a goal when God has chosen someone for you, but it becomes a part of your divine destiny!