3 Tips on How To Get Excited Again About Meeting the 1

December 10, 2015 at 9:00 am

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I know you’ve waited and waited and prayed and waited. You have gotten to the place on more than one occasion to where you’re tired of praying about it and you’re tired of waiting. You want to be excited, but some parts of you are beginning to actually question if you ever will meet the 1. Many of you are in the place of “Lord I believe, but help my unbelief.”


No worries! You’re not in this alone, but it’s time for you to get excited again. I know you’ve gotten your hopes up many times before and left disappointed or frustrated, but you must understand that there is a strong possibility that your mate has already been released and are simply being held up by the enemy in spiritual warfare. God hasn’t forgotten b/c for many of you, He has already released the 1.


So, I have outlined 3 tips on how to get excited again about meeting the 1.


1.) Have Others Pray With and For You About Your Mate

The bottom line is too many of you have been trying to go at it alone. Yes, you have conversations about relationships, but you’re the 1 praying about it. Everyone is praying for their own stuff, and some only pray for others about a mate when something major happens or their friend is terribly upset about something.


Get with 2 or more people and all of you should agree to pray for each other’s mate. It could be a married friend who also prays for your mate. The point is having prayer going forth on your behalf for your mate outside of just yourself. As I said, warfare is important. The enemy fights some people harder in certain areas than they fight others in the same area.


Yes, you have prayed and warred on it a lot to exhaustion. However, especially in this season, you cannot go at it alone. Hear me clearly when I say that you need to get at least 2 other people to touch and agree with you in prayer about your mate being released. You’re praying for their mate and they’re praying for yours.


It’s not a 1 time thing, but you all should commit to praying about it and warring against the enemy concerning it until you all see the breakthrough that you have been waiting for. Every battle is different and requires a certain strategy, but this battle in this season requires this strategy. I’m talking about someone who will really pray for you daily as you will for them regarding this area of your life.


This is not some desperate attempt to get to the 1, but it is understanding the importance of prayer. The enemy attacked some of you and you didn’t even know it. One attack is the moment you got so frustrated that you said you weren’t going to pray about it anymore. Every time you pray, you cause damage to Satan’s kingdom. Prayer is 1 of your greatest weapons.


2.) Do More For Yourself

Go somewhere that you have been wanting to go but have not made the time to do so. Money is not a factor b/c there are many things you can do and places you can go that doesn’t require money. Simply changing your routine adds something new to your life. Slow down and enjoy the surroundings.


Some of you are on the go all the time. You always have something going on. For others of you, you don’t do much at all. In both instances, you need to get out and do more for yourself. It’s something very simple, but we sometimes make some things unnecessarily complex.


You can do something as simple as going to the bookstore to read a book. It’s a different scenery. Take yourself out to dinner if you want to. When I was younger I didn’t like seeing 1 person eating alone at a restaurant. Now, there is a peace and calm that comes with it. I’ve seen people reading books, scrolling through social media, etc. while they dine at a restaurant or drink their coffee. You never know who you might meet while you’re out. You could gain a personal or professional connection just by having a conversation with people in passing.


3.) Have a Made Up Mind That You Will Meet The 1

You must know that you know that you will meet the 1. Just because they aren’t physically present doesn’t mean it hasn’t happened already in the spirit. So, you can begin to prepare for their arrival. There are some areas you can begin to adjust in now. Preparing for them can be something as simple as taking care of personal things that you may neglect right now since they aren’t here physically.


Think about all your personal goals that you have that you planned to do when the 1 arrived. Some of those things, you can begin to prepare for before they arrive. Start thinking about what your ideal relationship will look like. Revisit that list of the qualities you are seeking in your mate. If you haven’t created the list, create one.


You’re simply writing out the desires of your heart, and God wants to give you the desires of your heart. Ultimately, He wants you in a place where those desires are in line with His will. He already put the desire in your heart for the 1, so that longing you feel is based on the love God placed in your heart.


Get excited again in knowing that you will meet the 1. If you are still uncertain, that’s where the issue begins. Ask God to increase your faith. Can you still envision your wedding? Do you still have an idea of the things you want to occur at your wedding? There is nothing wrong with that.


In the meantime, don’t allow the enemy to prey on your emotions. Fight back! You should be excited about meeting the 1 b/c God is excited! He is excited to spoil you more through the 1 He is sending! I’m excited for you. The enemy has stolen your joy long enough in the area of relationships! It’s time to get your joy back! The 1 will manifest!

As always, remember that you are Single For 1! That is all for now.

Your Relationship Advisor,

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