Finding The Pieces To My Heart

May 26, 2016 at 9:00 am

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Heartbreak is never a good feeling. The thought of starting over again doesn’t always seem fun when you think about it. You wanted what you had to work. You wanted who you liked or loved to be it. You invested so much into them! You gave so much of yourself but walked away feeling like you lost something.


You know what it is like to take it 1 day at a time. It’s not fun to look around you and see so much that reminds you of the person you loved and cared for who is no longer in your life. Your heart feels like it can’t take another blow, but you are stronger than you realize. Hearing that doesn’t bring you happiness because perhaps you’re tired of being strong. Perhaps you’re tired of fighting.


Yes, you are tired, but your spirit has to wake up. You’re trying to put the fragmented pieces back together, but you don’t know where to start. How do you start over? Where do you begin? You begin with right where you are. You begin by taking a look in the mirror and admit to yourself that you will love again and be loved.


You begin by continuing to pursue your dreams. I know it’s frustrating when people come along and waste your time. You know they’re wasting your time, but sometimes you stayed around longer. You saw the games some of them played, but perhaps you tolerated it for too long. Your heart is not a toy, and it is not to be played with! Don’t allow it to be!


I know it’s frustrating at the thought that they’re moving on in life as though you weren’t there. Don’t focus on what someone in your past did or did not do b/c at the end of the day, love belongs to you and it will find you! Please hear me when I say don’t let one thought lead to another. Don’t let your thoughts get away from you. The enemy will use it to try to take you further and further into pain.


Your heart will be mended. Your soul will be healed. You just need to address it. You need to recognize the wounds and pray about it. Send the blood of Jesus daily into those wounds in your soul. I can’t stress enough the importance of having a healthy soul. So much is attached to that. So much can be hindered when it’s not healed.


I know you want to get married. I know you have been waiting and waiting and waiting. I know you have been hurt. I know you have been disappointed. Yes, I know you’re just tired. However, I also know that love is yours. I also know that you will be loved.


Are there some barriers that can get in the way of that? Yes! Are there demons who are determined to do everything to stop you from getting married? Yes! However, you have power and authority over them. You just have to know how to fight them effectively.


The fight is so strong against you b/c of what you and your future mate will carry. The fight is so strong against you b/c of how many other things are connected to your future covenant with your God ordained mate. I declare that you won’t be stopped! I declare that you won’t be denied! What the enemy has done to try to stop you from getting married, I declare that it will be exposed and destroyed in Jesus name!


In the meantime, don’t lose the faith. Please, please, please, I’m pleading with you to not lose the faith. It’s not God stopping it for the majority of you. It’s an enemy you’re fighting against, and you just have to know how to fight. I will continue to teach you how to fight, but you have to be willing to fight. I know you will get to the 1, and I’m excited for the strategies God will give to help you get to the 1. It’s time to put the pieces back together!


As always, remember that you are Single For 1! That is all for now.

Your Relationship Advisor,

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