It’s Hard to Think About Love B/c I’m Tired of Everything

December 3, 2015 at 9:00 am

sick and tired

Some of you have gotten to the place where your hope has dwindled about getting married. It’s not that you don’t think it will happen, but it’s the fact that so much other things are going on. You are looking for breakthrough in so many other areas. You may be wondering, when will I finally get a break?!


It seems like one thing after another happens. You do the right thing, but it still feels like you’re no better off than people who aren’t living for Christ. You know these things are not true, but b/c of the attacks you have experienced, you just feel how you feel. Some of you have been trying to shake it, but it just seems to be getting worse and worse.


You have prayed, fasted, warred against the enemy and perhaps you’re just flat out tired. Enough is enough! It feels like you can’t take it anymore. You can’t continue to live life like this. Well, you’re right. You will not continue to live life like this b/c God has more. Jesus died for you to have a life more abundantly, and it’s about time you start living it.


What you must understand is that the attack has been so great in the area of relationships, finances, family, health, etc., b/c you’re about to give birth to the biggest spiritual baby you’ve ever given birth to. The enemy is afraid of where you’re going, so they’re trying to stop you where you are! It won’t work.


Trust me when I say that you’re not in this alone. The entire body of Christ has been under great attack. It’s been an all out assault. Don’t give up on being with the 1 or on believing other things will happen in your life b/c you are far closer to breakthrough than you have been. You’re in a fight, but at the same time, God has used it to push you to greater levels of prayer and power in Him. The enemy’s plan will backfire.


If God placed the desire in your heart to be married, then that is a part of your destiny. Just in case you didn’t know, you have to fight in the spirit to fulfill destiny b/c the enemy is trying to block your destiny in God. You may have gotten the prophetic word, but you have to fight for it b/c the enemy will fight for it not to happen. The good news is that you will win. I know the burden. I know you’re tired. I know you’re weary, but it won’t be like this for much longer.


Keep the faith on this journey. Keep fighting even when you feel you have no strength to fight. You are on the verge of the greatest shift of your entire life to date. You are living out a great time in history. You can’t see it all right now, but I’m telling you that you are on schedule.


The key is that you pray and fast and stay obedient to the will of God. This is not a time to get so frustrated that you take matters into your own hand. Don’t make excuses for what you know is not in the will of God. The plan of the enemy is to get you to settle.


You may have so many other things going on that you don’t even have the time and energy to put anymore into praying or warring for the 1. Well, the good news is that for many of you, the 1 was released a while ago in the spirit. So, while you pray and fast and carry out God’s will, some of what you warred for in the past will still manifest b/c it comes with the package deal.


We cannot survive without a prayer life in this season. You cannot handle the responsibility God is entrusting you with without a consistent prayer and fasted lifestyle. The enemy knows this time is critical, but they’re hoping you don’t. The enemy will have to pay you back with interest what they stole from you.


You don’t have to question if you deserve love b/c you do. You may even feel like it’s not that important to you anymore b/c you’re tired of disappointment in this area or other areas. The good news is that God will still surprise you. The key is that you don’t get mad at God, but take it out on the enemy.


God is going to bless you loudly in this season in the midst of the hell you have faced. You must get committed to prayer and stay committed to prayer. It must be on a level you have not normally prayed on. You must be dedicated b/c it’s what will be needed to maintain what will manifest in your life.


In the meantime, please don’t quit. Don’t give up. I know it has been hard, but you will see the greatest amount of manifestation in a short period of time that will be greater than years of previous manifestations in your life. Love will manifest in your life. You don’t have to do it alone b/c God won’t let you do it alone. Love has an assignment with your name written all over it!


As always, remember that you are Single For 1! That is all for now.

Your Relationship Advisor,

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