Should I Let Him Go?

February 11, 2016 at 9:00 am


Diary of A Future Spouse

Dear Duke,

I met this guy January this year. We started dating and things were ok as he was spending more time with me. Problems started in May when he said I don’t spend enough time with him. I told him I don’t want to rush things. I introduced him in July.

You Are A Love Magnet!

October 1, 2015 at 9:00 am


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Today, I’m reposting a blog from the blog archives. It has often been said that love is a universal language. On the surface that is true, but what everyone calls love is not really love. That’s another story for another day. What is certain is that if you love God and yourself, you have no other option but to be a love magnet.


You look all around and you see people in love. You see wedding after wedding. Smiles on top of smiles. You see tears of joy coming down someone’s face because they have finally met the 1. It’s always a great time to be in love.

How Much Time Should It Take To Enter A Relationship?

April 16, 2015 at 9:00 am


How Much Time To Get In A Relationship

There will come that time when you’re spending time to get to know someone, and you’re wondering when it’s time to make the next step towards a relationship or when they will take the next step. I’m not one to put time limits on love and relationships, but there are some general rules that you can follow to help you determine if your time is being cherished or wasted.

3 Signs They Might Be The Right Fit!

March 26, 2015 at 11:05 am


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You must have it set in your mind that you will meet the 1. This must be your starting point. If you are wrestling back and forth about if you will ever meet the 1, you are not operating in faith. We know that scripture makes it clear that it is impossible to please God without faith. So, you must keep the faith. Where there is no faith, God won’t be interested! He’s very interested in things pertaining to you. God is very much into you, but He’s not into a lack of faith.

3 Love Goals To Have This Year!

February 5, 2015 at 9:00 am



I’m sure many of you have already written out your goals for the year. Some of you found yourself hesitant to write down or even think too much about if you would meet the 1 this year. Some of you are afraid of disappointment. You don’t want to get your hopes up too high based on some of your past experiences. Some of you are feeling some type of way because you didn’t meet the 1 last year. So, you are more sober in the process.

3 Tips Before You Get Back On The Dating Train!

January 29, 2015 at 9:00 am


love train

For some reason, the term dating in the 21st century has so many different meanings to so many different people. It can come across as scary, confusing, frustrating, etc. However, dating doesn’t have to be and shouldn’t be that way. If you’re dating with the right outlook, that should solve some of the issue. Dating is simply getting to know someone to see if they possess the necessary qualities, tools or if you like them enough to lead to a relationship.

I’m Not Giving You All Of Me!

January 22, 2015 at 9:00 am


give me all your lovin

Some of you have been accustomed to giving, giving, giving. Giving in itself is a great thing, but it’s another thing when you’re getting to know someone and you’re giving too much. I’ve heard it all. I know you may love hard. I know you may be a giver by nature. However, it doesn’t change the fact that you can’t give it all up front.

3 Dating Tips To Remember!

January 15, 2015 at 9:00 am


couple holding hands

The dating jungle can be very adventurous, but it can also come with some challenges. Dating doesn’t have to be complicated. Some of you have dated a number of individuals over the years and some of you have not dated. It doesn’t matter where you find yourself, you only need to get to the right 1. Regardless of how many dates, it doesn’t change the fact that 1 is still necessary.

Love Is Chasing You and It Will Catch You!

January 1, 2015 at 9:00 am


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Here we are in a new calendar year. You have reflected on the past year, and I imagine you assessed the good and the bad. I hope you celebrated what was accomplished instead of focusing on what you feel wasn’t accomplished. In the midst of it all, you may wonder not just what this year will entail but what will the next month or so entail.

I Don’t Know If I’m In A Relationship

December 25, 2014 at 9:00 am


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This is a repost from a post I wrote some years ago, but I found it fitting to revisit for those who find yourselves trying to figure out what’s going on in your current situation and for others to avoid it all together. The 1 is out there, but it helps to use the right tools to also avoid the wrong 1. Stay positive because the 1 will come. Have a wonderful Christmas!


One would think that this is not a question you would have to ask. However, there are countless individuals across the globe involved in something that seems like a relationship, but they are not 100% certain that it is. So, they are secretly asking themselves this question, Am I in a relationship? It is safe to say that if you have to ask the question, then you are probably not in one in the traditional sense of the word. There are men and women who find themselves in this position. They did not go into the situation expecting this outcome, but for some reason they are in this gray area that feels like and sometimes looks like a relationship, but at the end of the day it could go either way.