The Evans Engagement Story

September 29, 2016 at 9:00 am


We always hear stories from others who were blessed, encouraged, inspired, challenged, etc. by Single For 1. We love highlighting Godly couples, and this is the story of The Evans! Enjoy!


If I Were You, I Would Marry Me

April 21, 2016 at 9:00 am

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For starters, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you having a desire to get married and not being shy about it. I’m not saying that you’re running up to singles of the opposite sex screaming that you want to get married. I’m talking about the confidence of knowing that it will happen. I’m talking about talking about it with confidence and being unapologetic about your desire to be married. 

3 Things Not To Do If You Want To Get Married

November 19, 2015 at 9:00 am


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I have often talked about things to do pertaining to relationships, but it’s also important to know some things not to do. I understand that getting married is something most of you desire, but as I have often stated, getting married is not a goal if it’s God ordained. Marriage is not a goal when God has chosen someone for you, but it becomes a part of your divine destiny!

You Are A Love Magnet!

October 1, 2015 at 9:00 am


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Today, I’m reposting a blog from the blog archives. It has often been said that love is a universal language. On the surface that is true, but what everyone calls love is not really love. That’s another story for another day. What is certain is that if you love God and yourself, you have no other option but to be a love magnet.


You look all around and you see people in love. You see wedding after wedding. Smiles on top of smiles. You see tears of joy coming down someone’s face because they have finally met the 1. It’s always a great time to be in love.

The Duke’s Proposal Video

September 24, 2015 at 9:00 am

Over the past 4 weeks, I’ve shared excerpts from my electronic journal of some of the journey Donna and I was on that led up to this point. There is much more, but you’ll have to wait for the book. Here is the video I prepared for Donna on the day I proposed to her.


The Duke’s Journey Towards Marriage Part 4

September 17, 2015 at 9:00 am


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Here is another excerpt from the electronic journal I kept of our journey. Next week will be the final installment of this series. This has been a small teaser b/c it’s packed with so much more, but you’ll just have to wait for the book to see it all 🙂  I’ve received many messages of how it has been a blessing to many. Thank you all for reading. Glory to God! 

Day 45: 12/18/14

Donna, when I look in your eyes I can see our future. I can see all the wonderful things we will accomplish together. I can see all the love you have for me. I can see all the wonderful things I will do for you. It matters that you are in my life, and this chapter and moving forward will by far be the best chapters of our lives. I’m so excited, and it takes a lot to get me excited.

The Duke’s Journey Towards Marriage Part 3

September 10, 2015 at 9:00 am


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Here is another excerpt from the electronic journal I kept of the great journey Donna and I have been on. We all have been wounded from something, and I pray that this will show that God’s love will surpass all hurt and the right 1 will be able to love you like you need to be loved!

Day 38: 12/11/14

No matter the distance, you are right here with me b/c you are in the deepest chamber of my heart. No disagreement will ever be able to pull me away from you. I love you My Donna!

The Duke’s Journey Towards Marriage Part 2

September 3, 2015 at 9:00 am


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In my last post, you saw how it all began with me and Donna. I kept a journal of our journey from the time I knew Donna was the 1. I shared with you day 1 and day 2. Now, I’m going to share more of the journal.

The Duke’s Journey Towards Marriage Part 1

August 27, 2015 at 9:00 am


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I’m honored to share with my Single For 1 family all across the world that The Duke got engaged last week. I met the 1. Trust me when I say, I’ve lived so much of what I have blogged about. The wisdom and insight given to me by the Holy Spirit to speak into your lives week after week is the same wisdom I often had to apply to myself. The journey has not been all roses, but overall it is wonderful.

Stop Asking Me When I’m Getting Married

July 9, 2015 at 9:00 am


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The golden question that many experiences as a single is, “When are you getting married?” If they don’t ask that then it’s, “Why aren’t you married yet?” I experience it as well. My response has been, “When the Lord is ready, I’m ready.” For some of you, you may be thinking, if I knew the answer to that, I would tell you. It can be even more frustrating when a guy uses it as some type of pickup line. I know it’s lame!