Last week, I shared part 1 of my interview with host Jay Mayo on his Right to R.E.A.L. Love Podcast. I have included the rest of the interview below on the topic, “Why Praying For Your Future Spouse Is Not Enough.”
Praying For Your Future Spouse Is Not Enough Part 2
Praying For Your Future Spouse Is Not Enough Part 3
Praying For Your Future Spouse Is Not Enough Part 4
Remember that you are Single For 1.
Your Relationship Advisor,
You must keep the faith that you will meet the 1. It’s not something that might happen, but it’s something that has already happened in the spirit. It’s already written in your book in heaven. Do you know what that means? It means it’s already done! You just have to live it out and recognize that the enemy doesn’t want it to be fulfilled. So, fight back. Fight the good fight of faith.
Yes, there are all types of singles across the globe from various walks of life. I know you’ve heard every statistic there is when it comes to dating and relationships. Some of the statistics are false. Some are misleading. Some causes fear and panic. However, at the end of the day, those statistics have nothing to do with you meeting the 1.
I saw a post on social media a few days ago that said, “People are not dating anymore. They just talk, catch feelings, have a great time for a while and then end up ignoring each other.” I paused for a moment and thought about it. Unfortunately, that happens a bit too often. Of course, there are some key factors that may contribute to that. So, I have outlined 3 dating habits to break TODAY!
As you scroll through your social media feeds, it’s very common to see engagement photos, proposals and wedding pictures. It seems like so many people are getting married. Your friends, cousins, siblings and classmates all seem to be getting married. Naturally, you’re happy for them b/c you are in love with love. However, why does it seem like so many are meeting that special 1 and you haven’t yet?
Some of you are living as in being alive, but you don’t have your life. For some of you, parts of your life are still left behind with someone from your past. A good part of you may have been left in a past relationship, but it’s time to take it back and live! Your life should be held hostage by no one. They may not be physically doing it, but you could be emotionally bound. Your soul could still be tied to someone in your past.
Heartbreak is never a good feeling. The thought of starting over again doesn’t always seem fun when you think about it. You wanted what you had to work. You wanted who you liked or loved to be it. You invested so much into them! You gave so much of yourself but walked away feeling like you lost something.
Most of us have had a heartbreak or 2 or 3 along this journey. Things happen along the way that is obviously out of your immediate control. Some relationships didn’t go according to plan. Perhaps you left hurt and disappointed. Perhaps you left upset and are just tired of dealing with this process.
Dating is something that has to be done before you get to marriage. Some may call it courting, but either way, you have to get to know the person through dating. Unless of course it’s an arranged marriage, but I don’t believe any of you plan on having an arranged marriage in the traditional sense of the phrase. The only one arranging it is God.
Let’s get straight to the point here. Sometimes what some of you are doing is giving the best of yourself to someone who is just simply not worthy of what you have to offer. It doesn’t make them a bad person, but it just means they’re not for you. It really is as simple as that. Does it feel good? No.
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