It is a fact that love is a choice. If you have a desire to get married, God has placed that desire in you! So, you have to make the choice if you will continue to pray and fight for the manifestation of your God ordained spouse or not. There is sometimes a disconnect when some say they want to get married and actually believing they will.
So many individuals spend so much time looking for love when in all actuality, love is looking for you! You must understand that God wired you to want love and to give love. So, finding love is not the challenge b/c love is looking for you!
You must understand that for most of you, you don’t need to wait to get married, but you need to fight to get married. I say it often that 1 of 2 things are going on. Either God hasn’t released your mate yet and it’s a matter of waiting, or God has released your mate and Satan is holding it up in spiritual warfare.
Yes, you have to date before you get married and when you get married. However, there are some early dating warning signs to look out for while dating to help you avoid some unnecessary damage.
1.) When Spending Time Doesn’t Seem To Be Priority
Whether they are local or long distance, spending time should be a top priority. If you find yourself not talking to them for 1 day or days at a time, that is a major red flag. I don’t care how busy they say they are. A person makes time for what they want. How can you really get to know each other or grow in a relationship without spending time?
You may be wondering if you will ever meet the right 1. Dating sometimes can be frustrating. You may be wondering why does it have to be so complicated? Why can’t the 1 just show up today and you live happily ever after?
Yes, there are all types of singles across the globe from various walks of life. I know you’ve heard every statistic there is when it comes to dating and relationships. Some of the statistics are false. Some are misleading. Some causes fear and panic. However, at the end of the day, those statistics have nothing to do with you meeting the 1.
Alright, we’re in a new calendar year and many have already set their goals for the year. You have prayed that this is the year you will meet the 1 God has for you. You are focused on your personal goals and career goals. You are ready to be loved and to give love. So, I have outlined 3 dating pitfalls to avoid in the New Year.
Here we are approaching the end of another calendar year and perhaps you find yourself in what seems like the same position as you were in last year this time so when it comes to relationships. You may either not be with anyone, not have any legitimate potentials or still recovering from a breakup. Wherever you find yourself, if you are not with the 1 God has for you it can get a bit frustrating.
When it comes to dating and relationships, there is no time for all the gray area. There is no time for all the what ifs and trying to figure out what the other person is thinking or feeling. If you have to guess how they really feel about you then the foundation of the relationship is not solid. At the end of the day, you need to pray and see if they are the 1 or not. Even in knowing they’re the 1, there is still work that must be done on both sides.
I saw a post on social media a few days ago that said, “People are not dating anymore. They just talk, catch feelings, have a great time for a while and then end up ignoring each other.” I paused for a moment and thought about it. Unfortunately, that happens a bit too often. Of course, there are some key factors that may contribute to that. So, I have outlined 3 dating habits to break TODAY!
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