The DNA Of A Qualified Christian Single

February 2, 2017 at 9:00 am


Yes, there are all types of singles across the globe from various walks of life. I know you’ve heard every statistic there is when it comes to dating and relationships. Some of the statistics are false. Some are misleading. Some causes fear and panic. However, at the end of the day, those statistics have nothing to do with you meeting the 1. 

I Have Too Much Love To Give For It To Go To Waste

March 10, 2016 at 9:00 am


love balloon

All change is not bad change, but if you find yourself changing to try to become who you think someone wants you to be or to try to force love, that’s not a good thing. You already know that you shouldn’t change to try to be who someone wants you to be. However, sometimes it’s subtle and you may not be aware of it. There are too many who are taking bad advice from friends and family to do things that are simply below their standards. There is nothing wrong with you.

The Best of Me Is Saved For The Best of You

February 18, 2016 at 9:00 am

My love

Let’s get straight to the point here. Sometimes what some of you are doing is giving the best of yourself to someone who is just simply not worthy of what you have to offer. It doesn’t make them a bad person, but it just means they’re not for you. It really is as simple as that. Does it feel good? No.

I’m Not Giving You All Of Me!

January 22, 2015 at 9:00 am


give me all your lovin

Some of you have been accustomed to giving, giving, giving. Giving in itself is a great thing, but it’s another thing when you’re getting to know someone and you’re giving too much. I’ve heard it all. I know you may love hard. I know you may be a giver by nature. However, it doesn’t change the fact that you can’t give it all up front.

Video: Signs You May Have Met The 1

December 23, 2014 at 9:00 am

Take a look at today’s video, entitled, “Signs You May Have Met The 1!”

It’s A Privilege To Get To Know Me!

August 21, 2014 at 9:00 am


Important 2

In the midst of hearing all the doom and gloom about relationships that is seen all over television and various media outlets, it has prompted some individuals to change their approach, lower their standards, etc. There seems to be this belief that you’re not doing enough and that’s why you’re still single. That is far from the truth. The key is that you are choosing to live life.

You Will Wish You Valued Me!

August 7, 2014 at 9:00 am


Miss me

It’s amazing how some people don’t know how good they had it until they no longer have it. Perhaps you were in a relationship or just simply getting to know someone who clearly did not truly appreciate the gift that you were, and later on they realize how much they messed up. There are some who realize it, but they will never tell you. That’s not your problem, because at the end of the day, you’re on your way towards the 1.

Good Men With Good Standards Still Exist!

June 9, 2014 at 9:00 am


Diary of A Future Spouse


Dear Duke,

This is my story to encourage others out there. A few months after having a very terrible break, I remember locking myself in my room and praying. Thing is, I have always been this strange teenager who prays about EVERYTHING literally. So I prayed and had a conversation with my God.

I Have Waited Too Long To Settle For This!

October 10, 2013 at 9:00 am


No compromise


The better you know yourself, the more you should begin to realize that you should not settle, no matter how long you’ve been waiting for the 1.


It doesn’t take away your occasional frustration with the opposite sex, but if you know you’re ready for the 1, then you’re already more than half way there.


It takes 2, so if you are ready, that only means you need 1 more party to make 2.


With that being said, that 1 person must also bring their best.

I’m Sick and Tired of Waiting For The 1!

June 13, 2013 at 10:33 am

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Today is a “Dialogue With The Duke” entry where I respond to a question or a situation someone is dealing with or someone they know is dealing with.


Q: Dear Duke,

 As a woman who is trying to do the “right” things, I am tired of seeing people who are doing the “wrong” things getting blessed.  I don’t believe in living together before marriage.


I’m trying to refrain from sex until I’m married. I try to live my life in a way where my husband will spot me and not mix me up with the “worldly” women.


However, I’m seeing many women and men who live however they want to live and still get the blessings that I’m praying for.


It is completely driving me crazy. It’s making me question my faith and wonder if living by God’s word has any value. It sure doesn’t seem like it.  Please help me and give me some insight!