Hear me clearly, stop allowing individuals who give a halfway commitment to keep wasting your time. Don’t allow them to waste your time if they don’t want a real relationship. Notice that I said REAL. Some are in relationships, but it isn’t real. I know it’s easier said than done, but there has to come a time where you stop going around in circles or being held hostage by someone who really doesn’t know what they want.
I know that when it comes to dating and relationships and when you will get married, a lot of focus is placed on waiting on God. Most Christian relationship coaches spend a lot of time talking about waiting on God and preparing yourself while you wait. That’s good, but I’ve come to tell you that for the majority of you, it has less to do with you waiting on God and more to do with God waiting on you. I’m going to say something that may shock you! For most of you, God has already released your spouse but they are being held up by the devil. Not only that, but the enemy may actually be able to hold your spouse up legally that could have nothing to do directly with anything you did. The good news is that God has something wonderful that’s planned just for you when you get to the end of this blog post that will begin to propel you forward.
As you scroll through your social media feeds, it’s very common to see engagement photos, proposals and wedding pictures. It seems like so many people are getting married. Your friends, cousins, siblings and classmates all seem to be getting married. Naturally, you’re happy for them b/c you are in love with love. However, why does it seem like so many are meeting that special 1 and you haven’t yet?
Some of you are living as in being alive, but you don’t have your life. For some of you, parts of your life are still left behind with someone from your past. A good part of you may have been left in a past relationship, but it’s time to take it back and live! Your life should be held hostage by no one. They may not be physically doing it, but you could be emotionally bound. Your soul could still be tied to someone in your past.
If you missed our last Singles Prayer Call on Sunday, you can click on the link below to listen to the replay or call the replay
Replay Number at: (530) 881-1219 Meeting ID: 882 763 906 Replay Reference #46
Heartbreak is never a good feeling. The thought of starting over again doesn’t always seem fun when you think about it. You wanted what you had to work. You wanted who you liked or loved to be it. You invested so much into them! You gave so much of yourself but walked away feeling like you lost something.
There are times when dating when things don’t go according to plan. You may have found yourself in a certain position where you have been either waiting for someone to fully commit or waiting for someone to show that they’re interested in you. Wherever you find yourself on the dating journey, don’t give all of your time to someone who has shown you that you are not priority!
You may or may not feel like you’re ready for what all comes with a relationship, but you’re definitely ready for love. God’s love in your heart will lead the way. I didn’t say your emotions will lead the way. That can get you in trouble. I said God’s love in your heart will lead the way.
For starters, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you having a desire to get married and not being shy about it. I’m not saying that you’re running up to singles of the opposite sex screaming that you want to get married. I’m talking about the confidence of knowing that it will happen. I’m talking about talking about it with confidence and being unapologetic about your desire to be married.
If you missed our last Singles Prayer Call on Sunday, you can click on the link below to listen to the replay or call the replay
Replay Number at: (530) 881-1219 Meeting ID: 882 763 906 Replay Reference #45
Many Blessings,
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