3 Things To Stop Doing When You Date

January 14, 2016 at 9:00 am

 

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When you are in route to getting in a relationship, there are some things that you need to not do before you date or while you’re dating. I’m not talking about if you get to the 1, but I’m talking about when you get to the 1. There are some bad habits that need to be broken. I have outlined 3 things to stop doing when you date. These things sometimes go unnoticed, but if you recognize it, it will help you tremendously on your way to the 1.

You Would Fall In Love With Me

January 7, 2016 at 9:00 am

 

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Love is not hard to find! It is very easy for someone to fall in love with you! Some of you have gotten frustrated b/c you haven’t met the 1 yet! Not only have you not met the 1, but you haven’t met any good potentials. The good news is that it doesn’t matter. You will meet the right 1, and it will be easy for the right 1 to fall in love with you b/c they’ve waited for you all their life!

I’m Expecting My Best Love Ever

December 31, 2015 at 9:00 am

 

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Here we are 1 day away from another new calendar year. Perhaps you have waited to connect with your best love ever and it didn’t happen. I know that for many of you, the past 364 days have not been the best. You have seen some better days. Granted, all was not bad. However, I know that the warfare was at an all time high in the body of Christ b/c of what we’re coming into.

3 Dating Red Flags To Watch Out For

December 17, 2015 at 9:00 am

 

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No matter where you find yourself at this present moment when it comes to relationships, if you desire to marry, the fact of the matter remains that you will have to date before you walk down the aisle. Of course the desire is that the next person you date will be the 1. However, even in that, it’s still a process and there are some red flags that you need to be aware of and make sure you don’t ignore.

3 Tips on How To Get Excited Again About Meeting the 1

December 10, 2015 at 9:00 am

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I know you’ve waited and waited and prayed and waited. You have gotten to the place on more than one occasion to where you’re tired of praying about it and you’re tired of waiting. You want to be excited, but some parts of you are beginning to actually question if you ever will meet the 1. Many of you are in the place of “Lord I believe, but help my unbelief.”

It’s Hard to Think About Love B/c I’m Tired of Everything

December 3, 2015 at 9:00 am

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Some of you have gotten to the place where your hope has dwindled about getting married. It’s not that you don’t think it will happen, but it’s the fact that so much other things are going on. You are looking for breakthrough in so many other areas. You may be wondering, when will I finally get a break?!

3 Things Not To Do If You Want To Get Married

November 19, 2015 at 9:00 am

 

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I have often talked about things to do pertaining to relationships, but it’s also important to know some things not to do. I understand that getting married is something most of you desire, but as I have often stated, getting married is not a goal if it’s God ordained. Marriage is not a goal when God has chosen someone for you, but it becomes a part of your divine destiny!

The Greatest Love You’ve Ever Had

November 12, 2015 at 9:00 am

 

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Love is so beautiful, but it doesn’t seem as beautiful when you look around and it appears that everyone else is experiencing it except you. It doesn’t take away from the true beauty and power of love! Love will need no introduction in your life b/c it will show up and sweep you off of your feet!

World’s Most Wanted Singles

November 5, 2015 at 9:00 am

 

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If you’re a single Christian with Christian standards and have a desire in your heart to marry, then that automatically places you on the list of the world’s most wanted singles. Contrary to popular belief, many want to be with someone with quality standards, good character, personality, etc. As crazy as it seems, there are many singles out there of the opposite sex who have been led to believe based on what they have experienced that someone like you may not exist.

I Want and Deserve Your Love

October 8, 2015 at 9:00 am

 

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It may feel like you’ve been waiting forever to truly be loved by someone you want to be loved by. You have waited patiently and perhaps sometimes not so patiently. Of course, some of it has nothing to do with waiting on God, but quite often it’s the enemy who has been blocking what God released.

 

Your heart has been waiting for the day to receive the love from the 1. You have been waiting to give your love to the one. Perhaps you had some close calls, but it didn’t quite get to the place you had hope or expected. You should want love b/c God is love.

 

You don’t want love from just anyone, but you want love from the 1 that God has for you. You should not feel bad for wanting. God expects you to ask Him for what you want. He said, “Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4).  In other words, make God your happy place and He will give you the desires of your heart.

 

For too long, some of you have been made to feel guilty for talking about what you actually want in a mate not what you need. What you need is already covered, but you should be telling God what you want. When being in a relationship with God is your happy place, your wants being fulfilled becomes easy b/c you are so in tune with His will for your life.

 

So, you should want to be loved by the right one. You should expect to be treated a certain way. You should want certain things, and you should be unapologetic about it. Too many people have settled because a couple of needs were met, but God wants you to have what you want and need!

 

Don’t feel bad another day in your life for your wants. Ask God for more. You want more, ask for more. Don’t be ashamed to ask. Don’t be ashamed of your wants b/c God wants to fulfill them.

 

You deserve to be loved unconditionally. You’re supposed to be loved unconditionally. Anything less is not of God! Don’t listen to the noise in the crowd. You don’t need to compromise. You don’t need to scale back on your wants. God is a God who supplies your needs and gives you your wants!

 

So start back asking! Love is not just on the way, but love is here. Love is already in your heart, and more is coming to overtake you. The right 1 will shower you with levels of love you didn’t know you could experience! It’s the truth, so you should start believing it.

 

God is waiting for you to ask and ask in faith! Ask bigger than what you’ve asked. Perhaps you have said that you really don’t ask God for much, but you just want Him to do this or that. Well, let me tell you this, you need to start asking Him for more b/c saying you don’t ask Him for much isn’t as great as it sounds.

 

He wants you to ask. He expects you to ask. Scripture even says, “We have not because we ask not” (James 4:2). So, ask and ask big. You deserve love because Christ died and rose so you could have it all. Love does come easy when it’s real love b/c real love is from God.

 

In the meantime, stop watering down. Stop shrinking back. Stop being cute about your wants, and stop allowing others make you feel bad for wants. You deserve love, and I’m glad that it will find you in the right 1 for you!

 

As always, remember that you are Single For 1! That is all for now.

Your Relationship Advisor,

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