It is a fact that love is a choice. If you have a desire to get married, God has placed that desire in you! So, you have to make the choice if you will continue to pray and fight for the manifestation of your God ordained spouse or not. There is sometimes a disconnect when some say they want to get married and actually believing they will.
You must keep the faith that you will meet the 1. It’s not something that might happen, but it’s something that has already happened in the spirit. It’s already written in your book in heaven. Do you know what that means? It means it’s already done! You just have to live it out and recognize that the enemy doesn’t want it to be fulfilled. So, fight back. Fight the good fight of faith.
I am shouting from every mountaintop and rooftop for everyone to hear that “You’re not waiting on God to get married.” Well, for most of you that is the case. The Lord keeps reiterating this over and over and over again. Yes, for some of you, it’s not time yet. However, for most of you it is time! It’s actually overdue for many of you. Thank God that He can and will redeem the time.
You must understand that for most of you, you don’t need to wait to get married, but you need to fight to get married. I say it often that 1 of 2 things are going on. Either God hasn’t released your mate yet and it’s a matter of waiting, or God has released your mate and Satan is holding it up in spiritual warfare.
You may be wondering if you will ever meet the right 1. Dating sometimes can be frustrating. You may be wondering why does it have to be so complicated? Why can’t the 1 just show up today and you live happily ever after?
For starters, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you having a desire to get married and not being shy about it. I’m not saying that you’re running up to singles of the opposite sex screaming that you want to get married. I’m talking about the confidence of knowing that it will happen. I’m talking about talking about it with confidence and being unapologetic about your desire to be married.
Perhaps you haven’t been on a date in a long time. Perhaps, no one has shown interest. Perhaps those who have shown interest have simply wasted your time. You may be to that place where you’re just sick and tired of being tired. You’re mentally and emotionally exhausted from this rollercoaster ride on the journey towards love.
I know you don’t like the waiting game. You felt like you’ve waited forever for the 1. The good news is that they’re not far away. How far away you ask? The 1 is not far away b/c the 1 is already connected to you in spirit b/c God has ordained for you two to be together!
There’s nothing wrong with wondering “when will I get married. That’s a fair question to ask as long as it doesn’t consume your life or keep you from actually enjoying life. The bottom line is that if God said you will get married, you will. If you don’t know if He said it, if He put the desire in your heart, you will. Yes, you will also have demons doing everything in their power to fight against you to try to prevent it from happening.
The golden question that many experiences as a single is, “When are you getting married?” If they don’t ask that then it’s, “Why aren’t you married yet?” I experience it as well. My response has been, “When the Lord is ready, I’m ready.” For some of you, you may be thinking, if I knew the answer to that, I would tell you. It can be even more frustrating when a guy uses it as some type of pickup line. I know it’s lame!
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