Will I Ever Meet The Right 1?

February 23, 2017 at 9:00 am


You may be wondering if you will ever meet the right 1. Dating sometimes can be frustrating. You may be wondering why does it have to be so complicated? Why can’t the 1 just show up today and you live happily ever after?

I’m Sick and Tired of Waiting For The 1!

June 13, 2013 at 10:33 am

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Today is a “Dialogue With The Duke” entry where I respond to a question or a situation someone is dealing with or someone they know is dealing with.


Q: Dear Duke,

 As a woman who is trying to do the “right” things, I am tired of seeing people who are doing the “wrong” things getting blessed.  I don’t believe in living together before marriage.


I’m trying to refrain from sex until I’m married. I try to live my life in a way where my husband will spot me and not mix me up with the “worldly” women.


However, I’m seeing many women and men who live however they want to live and still get the blessings that I’m praying for.


It is completely driving me crazy. It’s making me question my faith and wonder if living by God’s word has any value. It sure doesn’t seem like it.  Please help me and give me some insight!

Is My Clock Really Ticking?

March 21, 2013 at 9:00 am




We always hear about this clock that is ticking away. There seems to be this fear that time is running out.


Not just in relationships, but we have all had times in our lives when it felt as though we were racing against some clock. We had this deadline in our head for something we really had no control over.


Women, many of you have been sold a story that your knight in shining armor will sweep you off your feet at a young age. You have gone to school and graduated.


You have a job, so naturally, it seems like your spouse should be next. If it hasn’t happened, too many of you go into panic mode.