So many individuals spend so much time looking for love when in all actuality, love is looking for you! You must understand that God wired you to want love and to give love. So, finding love is not the challenge b/c love is looking for you!
Today, we will revisit an older post from our “Diary of A Future Spouse” submissions. Enjoy! Also, be sure to join me by registering for my free teleconference that I will be conducting entitled, “Why Is Your Life On Hold? It will be a huge 1st step towards seeing a shift in your life and ridding your life of the works of the enemy that has kept so much on hold in your life. The registration link is below.
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Hello,
I have minimal dating success as a single black mother. My race isn’t the issue, or at least I don’t think so. I have tried meeting men online, as well in person. I work hard, and take care of my son with the help of my family.
The men I meet, however, are less than honest. They lie about being married, or living with someone. When confronted about it, they try to excuse it away. Many of the men that I meet are often looking for sex without real commitment.
As a woman that is trying to be celibate, this is very discouraging and frustrating. It makes me think that I may never meet my other half, and that I may never get married.
Some of you have gotten to the place where your hope has dwindled about getting married. It’s not that you don’t think it will happen, but it’s the fact that so much other things are going on. You are looking for breakthrough in so many other areas. You may be wondering, when will I finally get a break?!
There’s nothing wrong with wondering “when will I get married. That’s a fair question to ask as long as it doesn’t consume your life or keep you from actually enjoying life. The bottom line is that if God said you will get married, you will. If you don’t know if He said it, if He put the desire in your heart, you will. Yes, you will also have demons doing everything in their power to fight against you to try to prevent it from happening.
You must understand that as much as marriage is a gift, it is also a mindset. You must have a made up mind that no one or any situation will deter you from keeping the faith in God that you will get married one day, and not just one day but soon. Of course, sometimes soon to us and soon to God may seem a bit different. However, the good news is that you’re on God’s calendar.
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