The Best Place To Find Love

May 14, 2015 at 9:00 am


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Love is all around you just as love is all in you. The best place to find love is not as complex as you might think. Love can be found in a number of places, but there is one place that love is easiest to be found. You don’t have to look far and wide for it at all. The best place to find love is right within pursuing your God given purpose!


Is it that simple? Yes it is. It doesn’t mean that you will meet the 1 as soon as you’re fulfilling purpose, because some of you have already been doing what you have been sent here to do. However, it places you in a position where you can’t miss them if you tried. We all have a reason why God sent us here on earth.


The ultimate reason is to bring His kingdom on earth by telling others about Christ and letting Christ work in and through you. You are to change the very world around you through the power of God at work in you. So, what does all of this have to do with finding love? It has a lot to do with it actually.


When you’re doing what God called you to do, it’s much easier to get what God wants you to have! It cuts down on the mistakes we make by putting our hands in everything. When you’re focused on what God wants you to do, it makes it more difficult for distractions to pull you away.


You may feel that you don’t know your purpose. It’s not as complicated as it seems. Your purpose is just a list of assignments that God will give you. Eventually, those assignments will have a common theme. It’s within that where you will find your purpose. It’s the why you’re here. God has placed a passion in you. He placed dreams in you.


Some of you have placed it to the side because of certain obstacles, but you must realize that those dreams are a part of who you are because God placed them in you. I’m not talking about simply a hobby, but I’m talking about that thing in you that gets you excited just thinking about it. While you find yourself doing it, love can’t be far away.


Love is attracted to purpose! When you’re walking in purpose, love has no choice but to find you! It’s like a roadmap. When you’re walking in purpose, you will link up to people who are connected to your purpose. Guess what? The 1 God has for you is connected to your purpose.


God always puts the right people in the right place for the right time. So, when you’re walking in purpose, the right 1 will have to cross your path b/c they’re connected to it. Some things you’re assigned to do as a single, and some things you’re assigned to do when married! The 1 will come at the assigned time! After all, you both have work to do together.


This is just for you to wake back up some things that have been dormant in your life. There are some things you may have put aside or procrastinated in. There may be some areas you’re frustrated in because it’s not moving like you thought it would move. Don’t quit! Don’t abandon it!


God didn’t put it in you for you to do it, but He put it in you so He could do it through you! However, you have to stay in place in Him through prayer and faith so that He can finish what He started. The dreams must come back alive. No obstacle and hindrance can stop it from coming forth. Whatever the need is, it will be met by God in one way or another.


It is on this journey that you will find the 1. The 1 should come in contact with you while you’re pursuing purpose! The 1 should meet you as you’re both seeking God! Since they’re a part of His will for you, as you both seek God, your paths will merge! The best place to find love is in God, and when you’re in God and fulfilling His will, you both must meet. Have others met at different points in their life? Sure they have. However, the best place to find love is in pursuing your God given purpose.


In the meantime, don’t allow distractions to pull you back.  Keep pursuing God and you can’t miss purpose! Love is a part of who you are when you’re in God. So, no need to be concerned. Don’t allow frustration to get the best of you. You will meet the 1, and it will be in a way you couldn’t have planned.


P.S. Register for our Single For 1 Christian Singles Conference that will take place June 5th – June 6th 2015 in Charleston, SC. Conference details are on the conference registration page.

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As always, remember that you are Single For 1! That is all for now.

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