Will I Ever Meet The Right 1?

February 23, 2017 at 9:00 am


You may be wondering if you will ever meet the right 1. Dating sometimes can be frustrating. You may be wondering why does it have to be so complicated? Why can’t the 1 just show up today and you live happily ever after?


Those are great questions, and I totally understand how you feel. You’re tired of hearing how it’s a process. You’re tired of hearing people talk about waiting. You’re tired of just being tired of it all. For some of you, you don’t even want to talk about it. The good news is that you’re not alone and it cannot stay like this.


So, let me begin by saying, you will get married to the right 1! Repeat after me, I will get married to the right 1! You must live from the place of faith. Yes, I know it may have been shaken. I know you may be frustrated or disappointed, but you must operate from the place that it’s already done! As far as God is concerned, that piece is already taken care of. If He placed the desire in your heart to marry, then it’s already done.


Now that we know you will get married, you can reject all the lies Satan is trying to get you to subscribe to. Satan is the father of lies, so it’s his aim to lie to you in an attempt to get you to believe the lie and to get you upset with God. That’s a trap. The enemy wants you to curse your own marital destiny.


Remember that words hold power. Scripture tells us that “death and life is in the power of the tongue.” So, you can’t speak death about your marital destiny. You shouldn’t speak negative about it because you’re creating that atmosphere with your words. You’re giving the enemy legal access to do something with those words.


It’s one thing for the enemy to try to put us in a prison, but it’s another thing when our own words place us there. Watch your words! Yes, you have the human condition. So, you will feel. It’s natural as a human to get upset, be disappointed, and get frustrated. However, don’t stay there. Don’t live there.


You have a marital destiny, and although the enemy may have exercised some legal rights to block it, delay it, frustrate you, etc. The enemy will not be able to stop it. Satan knows that in many cases, he cannot stop the manifestation. He just hopes that he can block it and delay it long enough to either get you to give up, not want it anymore or to do something that gives them more legal rights to hang around.


However, Satan cannot stop you from getting married to the 1 God has. I do know from experience that the blocking can be challenging. So, this is why you must pray. This is why you must not just pray but engage the enemy in spiritual warfare. If Satan brings the fight to you, you counterattack.


For many of you, you’re not waiting on God. God has already done it. You just have to fight for what’s yours. Perhaps you are tired of fighting. However, if you’re tired, you’ve been fighting in your own strength and knowledge. You need to seek God for strategy and instructions on how to execute your victory on earth.


In the meantime, don’t fall for the lie. So, yes you will meet the 1. Yes, you will get married! Yes, you are in a war! Yes, the war has already been won in heaven. You just need to execute it on earth. God has anointed me to help you in this very area. Stay tuned because there is much more to come! I’m excited about your marital destiny! You will meet the right 1!


As always, remember that you are Single For 1! That is all for now.

Your Relationship Advisor,

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