I Won’t Be Held Hostage In This Relationship

July 28, 2016 at 9:00 am

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Tough decisions are tough for a reason. We have to make them throughout life. You can know the right thing to do, but it doesn’t always mean that the decision is easy. Some of you are in “situations” right now. It’s not a relationship, but simply a situation. For some of you it is a relationship, but it’s time to make some choices.


Of course, when you seek God, God will definitely give you answers. However, those answers don’t necessarily make it easy when it’s time to execute the plan. You cannot allow yourself to be held hostage in a relationship. You can no longer allow yourself to be held hostage in something that is not a relationship but feels like it. Either you’re going to be in the relationship or not.


However, what if this is not the relationship you’re supposed to be in? What if this is not the person you’re supposed to be with? Some of you are waiting and waiting for someone who you believe is the 1, but you’ve placed your life on hold. You cannot continue to live life in the what if. It’s time to live in the what is. It’s time to live in the now. It’s time to find out what God is saying right now!


Don’t get so caught up in being with a person until you ignore what God is saying about the person! For some of you, it’s time to move on. Get out of denial. Stop holding yourself hostage or allowing their words to hold you hostage. It’s time to move on. You know who you are b/c the Holy Spirit just convicted you.


Is it easy? Of course not. However, there is more God has for you. You can come up with a million reasons why you should stay in the situation. You can even try to ignore this post as though I’m not talking to you, but what I’m saying comes as no shock. It bears witness with the individual’s spirit who this post is specifically for. You’ve been praying and seeking God for answers, and this is your answer. It’s time to move on! God has someone else for you.


Please understand that prophecy is conditional, and it also has a timestamp on it. There is an expiration date for certain prophecies if certain individuals don’t do their part or are in position. God doesn’t love them any less, but His will won’t be altered b/c someone chose not to get in position. Yes, I know spiritual warfare plays a role, and that’s why I teach you how to engage the enemy.


In the meantime, it’s time to make some choices. For some of you, you don’t have someone who you’re with, but you have been tempted to settle or tempted to believe that you won’t meet the right 1. However, you must rest in the confidence in knowing that you will. For others, you can’t continue to stay at a standstill in a relationship that is not moving forward. It’s time to move forward. I know this is not easy, but you can’t get to the 1 if you’re with the 1 God said no to. Don’t allow fear to keep you in bondage. God has the best for you, but you have must be obedient when He says no. When God says no to when you want a yes, there’s a guarantee that He has a better yes than you can imagine!


P.S. I am starting a 4 week course that begins Monday, August 8th entitled, “Getting Your House In Order.” This 4 week course is a foundational course to get to the root of why your life is on hold in any area. This will help you identify it, eradicate it and move forward to be all God called you to be and have all God wants you to have. You will want and need to be a part of this. Invest in yourself! The registration link is below.

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As always, remember that you are Single For 1! That is all for now.

Your Relationship Advisor,

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